Why does Kim want to get Married?
1. To change my last name. I contemplated taking my maiden name back after I divorced, but I’d already had this last name for over a decade and figured it was best to have the same name as my children. But I’m ready for a new signature.
2. To get married in a church. I had gotten married on a Monday afternoon at the courthouse when I was eighteen. Not exactly romantic.
3. To be able to register at Target’s Club Wedd. I don’t necessarily need the gifts; I just want to take the gun around the store and scan all the stuff I’d like.
Okay, so those aren’t exactly reasons to jump into matrimony. I need to find a guy to fit my specifications first.
Jon Levine says:
I have to tell you, I once walked around Target with a gun and all I got was arrested.
Friday, 13 October 2006 @ 8:51am
Krystal32 says:
I have to say, I’ve been married 1 time and let me tell ya, NOTHING, I mean NOTHING AT ALL, could ever make me lose my mind enough to say those two horrible words( I DO ) ever again ! I left my relationship and there no way I am going to get myself back into that again. But, good luck to you Kim. Hope it works out for ya.
Friday, 13 October 2006 @ 9:01am
janis says:
I have gotten married 3,(yes i said 3), times and still haven’t gotten it right! And I thought 3 was a charm. Oh well
Friday, 13 October 2006 @ 12:51pm
John Schlarb says:
Well Kim are you sure you want to have someone take care of you, or are you looking for someone that you can take care of and still have the respect for you and what you are doing. Your list of prerisiquites(How`s that for spelling) are more like a prenup, than a general requirement. If you really want this person to be this way, then you would need to look in those places that he can be found. and not wait`in for him to show up some how out of the blue or green or onange! Your looking for a guy with heart, and no fear of love for you. and alot of maturity, that would give you peace of mind. (you might look into the firedepartments, or farmers/cattle ranchers, or some of the more relax occupations) John
Friday, 13 October 2006 @ 8:16pm
Paul says:
“my specifications first” = more of same. If that is anyone’s outlook, even the 5th marriage won’t do the trick. Are you doing the same things and expecting different results? If we think our given system is the way to operate, be it the Kim System or the Janis System or the Paul System, ask yourself -How is it working for me? Is anyone following your lead? If they did would they fire you as an advisor? What is the one thing that is common to all of your relationships ever?
Monday, 16 October 2006 @ 10:21pm
kim says:
I got an email from a reader…
“what does Paul have against you anyway? Did you dump him at one time? LOL!”
… No, I don’t think I even know Paul personally. Just for the record, I don’t divulge my whole relationship status here. I do get asked on dates, and I go on dates, and I get caught in love-triangles. Maybe I don’t need to settle down at all…
Tuesday, 17 October 2006 @ 7:20am
Paul says:
Such an email is doubtful but that is an interesting perception of how insight and contribution and a tough love of sorts is viewed as being “against” someone. That is almost strange. Those with that kind of perception stay in a basic survival mode and don’t make any kind of remarkable progress. All of those question marks and you didn’t try them out?
Thursday, 19 October 2006 @ 6:38am
Paul says:
Oops, that was another question mark. Hurry, run, run away or it will be a lifetime of oppression! LOL. Come on, certainly you have a more vivid imagination than that. No?
Thursday, 19 October 2006 @ 6:41am